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An Overview: Long-Term Care Alternatives
If you or a loved one is considering a move to long-term care, there are many options with varying levels of care, costs, and benefits. Your SRES® Real Estate Professional is trained to assist seniors and can help you understand the choices in your area, including:
Active Senior Communities Many areas offer active senior communities for adults 55+, providing independent living with social interaction and amenities like exercise facilities, pools, meals, and organized events.
Assisted Living Residences Assisted living residences provides non-medical support for independent seniors who may need some help with daily life, offering private living spaces and communal dining and activities.
Residential Care Homes A smaller form of assisted living, these homes are often in residential neighborhoods with room for 20 or fewer older adults. They are typically similar in cost to assisted living residences and are well suited for individuals who wish to live in a smaller facility.
Nursing Homes Nursing homes offer 24-hour care, including nursing, meals and personal assistance. They primarily serve individuals with long-term physical or mental health needs, housing residents in private or shared rooms.
Memory Care Facilities Memory care is usually offered by assisted living facilities and nursing homes for older adults diagnosed with dementia and Alzheimer’s disease who can no longer live on their own.
Continuing Care Retirement Communities (CCRCs) Continuing care retirement communities combine different levels of care on one campus offering the advantage of staying in one place as a senior grows older.
Veterans Care Veterans receive a range of benefits for long-term care. They may stay at regular nursing homes on contract with the Department of Veterans Affairs or at homes operated by the VA, using certain funds to pay for assisted living and home care.
Aging In Place Long-term care can help seniors age in place, but not all homes are suited for this. The cost of modifying a home for mobility or cognitive needs may make staying there financially challenging.
Talk to your local SRES® Real Estate Professional. Tap into their knowledge as a specialist in the real estate needs of seniors.
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Reference: The Center for REALTOR® Development (CRD) confers the Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®) designation, which is an official credential of the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR).
4 Built-In Benefits of Planned Communities
If you’re searching for a home that offers built-in perks to enhance your lifestyle, a planned community might be the perfect fit. Designed with thoughtfulness, these communities provide opportunities for everything from making new friends to staying active. Here are just a few benefits that planned living offers:
- A Strong Sense of Community
Planned communities often feature shared spaces like clubhouses, pools, and courtyards that encourage social engagement. Residents can easily join activities like yoga classes, book clubs, or themed holiday events. Living in a close-knit neighborhood where friendships are easily formed boosts overall well-being at any age. - An Abundance of Amenities
You don’t need to venture far to stay active or find new adventures in a planned community. Most developments offer parks, nature trails, and recreational facilities within walking distance. Sports enthusiasts will find golf courses, tennis and pickleball courts, and fitness centers with group classes. Outdoor areas with grills, firepits, and seating make it easy to relax or entertain. Some communities even have clubhouses with food service or on-site restaurants, along with special features like spas, theaters, and craft rooms. - Enhanced Security
Safety is a priority in planned communities. Well-lit streets, surveillance systems, gated access, and 24/7 security personnel are common. Apartment-style homes often use electronic keypads, while newer developments feature cutting-edge security tech like video doorbells, smart locks, and remote monitoring systems. - Convenient Access to Services
Many planned communities are located near essential services like medical facilities, schools, and transportation hubs. Developers also prioritize proximity to retail shops, restaurants, and entertainment venues, fostering a sense of connection within the wider community.
Planned communities make it easy to enjoy a vibrant, fulfilling lifestyle. Interested in learning more? Coldwell Banker Realty agents are experts in master-planned developments and can help you find the ideal fit.
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
What to Expect When You Meet with a Financial Advisor
Meeting with a financial advisor is a crucial step toward ensuring your financial security and achieving your retirement goals. If you’re not already working with one, the idea might seem intimidating, but knowing what to expect can make the process easier and more rewarding. Here’s a guide to help you prepare for your first meeting with a financial advisor and make the most of this valuable relationship.
GETTING TO KNOW YOU
Your initial meeting with a financial advisor or wealth manager focuses on understanding your financial situation, goals, and concerns. Financial advisors work with people from all sorts of economic situations, so don’t worry if you think your situation is unique. They’ve seen it all and are there to help you. Be prepared to bring all relevant financial documents, such as bank statements, investment accounts, and tax returns. The more information you provide, the more personalized and effective your financial plan will be.
NOW IS THE RIGHT TIME
It’s never too late to start planning your finances, but the earlier you begin, the better. Early consultations with a financial advisor offer more options, such as determining the optimal age to start collecting Social Security. Even if you feel behind, taking the first step can lead to greater financial security and peace of mind.
EXPRESSING GOALS AND FEARS
Your financial advisor needs to understand your financial and lifestyle goals. Whether you want to travel, downsize your home, or leave an inheritance, be honest about what you hope to achieve. Discussing your concerns, such as running out of money or covering medical expenses, is equally important. Sharing your fears allows your advisor to address them and build a plan that makes you feel secure.
KEEPING IN CONTACT
Meeting with a financial advisor isn’t a one-time event. It’s the beginning of an ongoing relationship. Your financial situation and goals will likely change over time, and it’s important to keep your advisor updated. Many advisors will meet with clients quarterly. Some will meet less often. It all depends on your needs and your plan. Remember that big events, including family changes and real estate transactions, may require some adjustments to your plan. Regular check-ins ensure that your financial strategy stays on track and can be adapted as needed.
Meeting with a financial advisor is a key step toward achieving security and peace of mind. Whether you’re starting late or just want to ensure you’re on the right track, your advisor is there to help guide you through the process. Not sure how to find the right financial advisor or wealth manager for you? Don’t hesitate to reach out to your Senior Real Estate Specialist® for a referral and start planning for your future now.
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Reference: The Center for REALTOR® Development (CRD) confers the Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®) designation, which is an official credential of the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR).
Navigating Capital Gains Taxes When Selling Your Long-Time Home
A Guide for Retirees
Selling a home you’ve owned for over 30 years can be an emotional and complex process, particularly when it comes to managing the financial implications. One significant concern for many retirees is the potential capital gains tax on the profit from the sale. Let’s explore several strategies to help you navigate and minimize capital gains taxes, ensuring you retain as much of your hard-earned equity as possible.
Understanding Capital Gains Tax on Home Sales
When you sell a property for more than you paid for it, the profit is known as a capital gain. The IRS taxes these gains, but there are special provisions for primary residences that can significantly reduce your tax liability.
Key Strategies to Minimize Capital Gains Tax
1. Primary Residence Exclusion
The IRS offers a generous exclusion on capital gains from the sale of your primary residence:
- Individuals: Can exclude up to $250,000 of capital gains.
- Married Couples Filing Jointly: Can exclude up to $500,000 of capital gains.
To qualify, you must have owned and lived in the home as your primary residence for at least 2 of the last 5 years. This exclusion can substantially reduce or even eliminate your taxable gain.
2. Consult a CPA or Financial Advisor
Tax laws are complex and ever-changing. Consulting with a certified public accountant (CPA) or a financial advisor can provide you with personalized advice and strategies to minimize your tax liability. They can help ensure you take advantage of all available deductions and credits.
3. Consider an Installment Sale
An installment sale allows you to receive payments over time rather than in a lump sum. This can spread the tax liability over several years, potentially keeping you in a lower tax bracket each year.
4. Explore a 1031 Exchange
If you plan to reinvest in another property, a 1031 exchange can defer the capital gains tax. This IRS provision allows you to reinvest the proceeds into a similar, like-kind property. However, it’s typically used for investment properties rather than primary residences.
5. Increase Your Home’s Basis with Improvements
Capital improvements (not regular maintenance) can be added to the original purchase price of your home, increasing the cost basis and reducing the taxable gain. Keep detailed records and receipts of all home improvements over the years.
6. Gift the Property
Transferring ownership of the property as a gift to family members can reduce your taxable estate and potentially avoid capital gains taxes. However, this involves complex tax rules and potential gift taxes, so professional advice is essential.
7. Use a Charitable Remainder Trust (CRT)
A CRT allows you to donate the property, receive income from the trust, and potentially avoid immediate capital gains taxes. This can be an excellent way to support a cause you care about while benefiting from tax advantages.
Practical Example
Imagine you and your spouse bought your home 35 years ago for $100,000, and it’s now worth $700,000. If you sell it, your capital gain is $600,000. With the primary residence exclusion for married couples, you can exclude $500,000 of that gain, leaving you with $100,000 subject to capital gains tax. By consulting a CPA, you might find additional deductions or consider strategies like an installment sale to further reduce your tax liability.
Final Thoughts
Selling a long-time home is a significant financial event, especially in retirement. By understanding and implementing these strategies, you can better manage the capital gains tax implications and make the most of your home’s equity. Always consult with financial and tax professionals to tailor these strategies to your specific situation and ensure compliance with all tax laws.
Navigating this complex terrain might seem daunting, but with the right advice and planning, you can confidently move forward, securing your financial future while preserving the memories and value built over decades in your home.
Each of these solutions should be carefully evaluated based on individual circumstances and with the guidance of a financial or tax professional.
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Tech-Savvy Living
A Guide to Property Technology for Older Adults
Property technology is shifting how people buy, sell, and manage their homes and real estate transactions. Although several different types of technology are used in the housing industry, here are three types you may benefit from adopting.
1. SMART HOME TECHNOLOGY
Smart home technology offers many benefits, including increased comfort, convenience, and safety. These devices allow you to control different aspects of your home, such as lighting and security cameras, through smartphone apps or voice commands.
Smart home devices like motion sensors and automated medication dispensers can also help monitor daily activities and provide timely reminders. To learn more, refer to Smart-Home Technology for Aging in Place by the National Association of REALTORS®.
2. PROPERTY SEARCH TECHNOLOGY
Searching for properties online has revolutionized the home-buying process for older adults. Leading property search engines like Realtor.com provide extensive listings with detailed information, highquality images, and virtual tours. This allows you to explore potential properties from the comforts of home on your own device.
With a Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®), you can navigate these platforms confidently, receiving expert assistance searching for and listing homes. While apps can be valuable in helping you visualize a property, the guidance of an experienced, trusted professional will make your transaction smoother.
3. ACCESSING PROFESSIONAL SERVICES
Another way to use tech to manage your home is to use apps and websites to research professional service platforms like Angie’s List, HomeAdvisor, and Thumbtack. These resources provide comprehensive databases of vetted contractors and service providers. These services can help you find reliable help for home maintenance and improvement projects, all from your smartphone or tablet.
Easing the home-buying process, simplifying your property management routine, and saving you time and hassle are big advantages of real estate technology. Utilizing these platforms can help you navigate the complexities of homeownership confidently and easily, and allow you the benefits of tech-savvy living in your golden years.
“I’m Your SRES®”
Jennifer Martire Baukol
278 Mamaroneck Ave
White Plains, NY 10605
(914) 584-2211
Reference: The Center for REALTOR® Development (CRD) confers the Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®) designation, which is an official credential of the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR).
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Selling Your Home with Sentimental Value
Navigating Emotional Attachments while selling your home:
As a seasoned real estate agent with over 15 years of experience, specializing in senior real estate, I’ve encountered countless clients facing the daunting task of parting ways with homes filled with cherished memories. Selling a home that holds sentimental value can be emotionally challenging, and it’s perfectly natural for sellers to feel a mix of nostalgia, apprehension, and even grief during the process.
For many seniors, their home represents more than just a property; it’s a repository of cherished moments, a sanctuary where they’ve woven the threads of their life stories. From the laughter echoing through the halls to the quiet moments of reflection in the backyard, every corner of the home holds a piece of their personal history.
However, as life evolves, circumstances change, and sometimes the need to sell the beloved family home arises. Whether it’s downsizing for retirement, relocating to be closer to loved ones, or simply seeking a change of scenery, the decision to sell can feel overwhelming, laden with sentimental attachments.
This is where I step in as your trusted Senior Real Estate Specialist. My mission goes beyond just facilitating property transactions; it’s about guiding you through a journey of transition with compassion, understanding, and unwavering support.
Proven Expertise in Business Negotiation: With years of experience in the real estate industry, I bring a wealth of knowledge and expertise to the table. From pricing strategies to negotiation tactics, I leverage my skills to ensure you receive the best possible outcome for your property sale.
Trustworthiness and Integrity: Trust is the cornerstone of any successful client-agent relationship. You can rely on me to always act with the utmost integrity, putting your interests first and keeping you informed every step of the way. Your peace of mind is my priority.
Problem Solver and Motivator: Navigating the complexities of selling a home can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone. I thrive on solving challenges and finding creative solutions to any obstacles that may arise. Consider me your partner in problem-solving, dedicated to turning hurdles into opportunities.
Personalized Approach: No two clients are alike, and neither are their real estate needs. I take the time to understand your unique situation, preferences, and goals, crafting a tailored strategy that aligns with your vision for the future. Your journey is unique, and I am here to support you every step of the way.
Empathy and Compassion: Above all, I recognize the emotional significance of selling a home with sentimental value. I approach each client’s story with empathy and compassion, offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on throughout the process. Together, we’ll navigate this transition with grace and dignity, honoring the memories while embracing the future.
Selling a home with sentimental value is more than just a transaction; it’s a deeply personal experience. With my expertise, dedication, and unwavering support, you can embark on this journey with confidence, knowing that you have a trusted ally by your side every step of the way. Let’s turn the page to the next chapter of your life, together.
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Essential Conversations When Moving Near Family
Considering a relocation to be closer to family?
The prospect of moving near loved ones can be both exciting and daunting, especially when it comes to navigating shifts in family dynamics. Research indicates that for older adults, this transition can be particularly challenging due to three key stressors:
- Loss of established social networks: Moving to a new location often means leaving behind cherished friendships and community ties built over the years. This loss can leave individuals feeling disconnected and isolated.
- Managing expectations within the family: Proximity to family members can sometimes come with heightened expectations and obligations. Balancing these expectations while maintaining personal autonomy can be a source of tension and stress.
- Coping with increased caregiving responsibilities: Moving closer to family may also mean assuming a greater role in caregiving for aging relatives. This added responsibility can lead to feelings of dependency and overwhelm.
If you find yourself grappling with any of these challenges, initiating conversations about boundaries with your family members can be immensely beneficial in easing the transition. But what exactly are boundaries?
Boundaries are the guidelines you establish within your relationships, delineating how you allocate your time, energy, and resources. Contrary to shutting others out, boundaries empower you to determine the terms under which you engage with others, ensuring a healthy balance between connection and personal space within your life and home.
Setting and discussing boundaries is crucial for building and maintaining strong family relationships, especially when considering a move closer to family. By establishing clear guidelines and fostering mutual understanding and cooperation, you can address different expectations and facilitate a smoother transition for everyone involved.
Remember, you have the autonomy to decide how you use your time and resources, while your family members have the freedom to determine what they can offer in return. By respecting each other’s boundaries and needs, you can create a harmonious environment where everyone feels valued and supported.
Topics to address to respect family boundaries:
Here are topics you may want to think through by yourself or address with your family members when moving closer together: 1. Do you want your family to help you make new social connections?
2. Do you need someone to help with an infirm spouse to give you breaks?
3. How often would you like to see each other?
4. What kind of support do you want or need?
5. How do you feel about family members staying the night?
6. Are you open to family members dropping by unannounced?
7. Do you plan on sharing keys or garage codes?
8. How long is the ideal visit?
9. Do you want to help with household tasks, including cooking, cleaning, or babysitting?
10. Are you okay with young children visiting your home, or are you worried about noise or breakables?
11. Do you have any house rules you need to communicate to family members? (no shoes, no smoking, no pets etc).
12. What are your concerns about moving closer?
Let a SRES Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Embracing Swedish Death Cleaning: A Guide to Moving and Downsizing in Senior Real Estate
In the realm of real estate in Westchester County, New York, particularly in senior housing and downsizing, a concept has emerged that transcends mere tidying up or decluttering. It’s called Swedish Death Cleaning, a term coined by Margareta Magnusson in her book “The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Free Yourself and Your Family from a Lifetime of Clutter.” While the name might sound morbid, the essence of Swedish Death Cleaning revolves around a thoughtful and mindful approach to organizing one’s belongings to ease the burden on loved ones after one’s passing. Let’s delve into the core principles of Swedish Death Cleaning and explore how they can be applied to moving and downsizing in the context of senior real estate.
Understanding Swedish Death Cleaning: Swedish Death Cleaning isn’t about preparing for death but rather about embracing life by simplifying and organizing one’s possessions. It involves systematically decluttering and downsizing belongings to ensure that what remains is meaningful and manageable. The key principles of Swedish Death Cleaning include:
- Start Early: Swedish Death Cleaning encourages individuals to begin the process sooner rather than later. By starting early, seniors can take their time to go through their possessions thoughtfully, without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.
- Reflect on What Matters: Central to Swedish Death Cleaning is the idea of reflecting on what items hold significance and bring joy. Seniors are encouraged to keep only those belongings that hold sentimental value or serve a practical purpose, letting go of things that no longer resonate with them.
- Letting Go with Gratitude: Parting with possessions can be emotional, but Swedish Death Cleaning encourages individuals to let go with gratitude rather than guilt. By expressing gratitude for the memories associated with an item, seniors can find closure and peace in passing it on to someone else who may benefit from it.
- Streamline for Loved Ones: A core aspect of Swedish Death Cleaning is considering the impact of one’s possessions on loved ones after one’s passing. By decluttering and organizing belongings, seniors can lighten the burden on their family members and ensure a smoother transition in the event of relocation or downsizing.
Applying Swedish Death Cleaning to Moving and Downsizing in Senior Real Estate: The principles of Swedish Death Cleaning align closely with the challenges seniors face when moving or downsizing in the context of real estate. Here’s how these principles can be applied:
- Tailored Downsizing Plans: Real estate professionals can work with seniors to create personalized downsizing plans that align with the principles of Swedish Death Cleaning. This involves identifying essential belongings, sentimental items, and items to let go of with gratitude.
- Emotional Support: Moving and downsizing can be emotionally taxing for seniors. By incorporating the principles of Swedish Death Cleaning, real estate agents can provide empathy and support throughout the process, helping seniors navigate the emotional challenges of letting go.
- Efficient Organization: Swedish Death Cleaning emphasizes the importance of organized living spaces. Real estate professionals can assist seniors in optimizing their living spaces by decluttering, arranging belongings efficiently, and creating a serene environment conducive to their well-being.
- Legacy Planning: Swedish Death Cleaning encourages individuals to consider their legacy and the impact of their possessions on future generations. Real estate professionals can facilitate discussions around legacy planning, helping seniors make informed decisions about their belongings and their estate.
Swedish Death Cleaning offers a refreshing perspective on decluttering and downsizing, emphasizing mindfulness, gratitude, and simplicity. In the realm of senior real estate, incorporating the principles of Swedish Death Cleaning can transform the moving and downsizing process into a meaningful and empowering experience. By embracing Swedish Death Cleaning, seniors can not only streamline their living spaces but also leave behind a legacy of intentionality and thoughtfulness for their loved ones to cherish.
Let a Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
Becoming Your Parents’ Parent
Sometimes, a parent’s decline comes gradually, giving you time and mental energy to plan. At other times, you’re thrust into a full-on caregiving role after a sudden event: a stroke, a fall, or a significant illness.
No matter how you arrive in your caregiving role, you land in unknown territory trying to figure out your parents’ housing, finances, health decisions, and day-to-day care, all while managing your own life and career.
That’s some of what Kim and Mike Barnes faced when they started caring for their parents. It inspired the couple to launch Parenting Aging Parents, a website and online community designed to help others navigate the difficulties of switching roles and becoming parents’ parents.
Shared Personal Journeys
The Barnes share their personal experiences throughout the site in videos and podcasts. Mike’s mom grappled with Alzheimer’s, and he needed to find memory care for her while also ensuring that his father received the proper care at his independent living facility. Kim’s mom had been independent and caring for herself but moved to an independent living building. She’d also been the victim of a scam, after which her kids started managing her finances.
Their story resonates with many who are navigating the complications of caring for aging parents and facing a slew of decisions. If you’re in such a position, Parenting Aging Parents can help you face the incredible physical, financial, and emotional challenges that accompany such a role. The website features information and interviews with experts about everything from dementia, caregiving, and insurance to Medicare, legal topics, and end-of-life considerations.
For example, two attorneys offer insight into the confusing and complicated legal aspects of medical decisions and what you need to know about a medical power of attorney, medical directives, HIPAA releases, and “DNRs” (Do Not Resuscitate) orders.
In addition, housing issues get considerable attention, including discussions about home safety, planning vacations while leaving parents at home, and understanding senior living options.
For instance, during a podcast, Mike discusses his and his sister’s challenges in choosing a memory care facility for his mom. He reflects on how little he comprehended at the beginning of the process and how he’d expected the experience to be like choosing an apartment in his twenties.
Other topics include scam awareness, managing sibling disagreements about parental care, and how to approach the sensitive topic of taking away parents’ car keys.
Strangers Unite for Support
Another component of Parenting Aging Parents is a Facebook group. It’s a robust community of more than 12,000 people who come together to vent, ask questions, share recommendations, learn from one another, and find support and comfort from other people experiencing similar challenges.
Recent conversations have included dealing with narcissistic parents, skilled nursing questions, cell phone recommendations, and convincing a parent that it’s time to consider assisted living.
Further solace for Facebook group members comes from Zoom support groups every other week. Dementia, grief, making tough decisions, family dynamics, caregiver stress, and narcissistic parents are some upcoming topics.
SRES Consumer Newsletter – February 2024 • US Edition – By Elyse Umlauf-Garneau
Let a Real Estate Sales Associate, like Jennifer, handle the real estate details, so you can focus on what matters most—your new adventure in life. Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.
“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service.
My promise to you is to
(1) put your interests first,
(2) help you reach your goals quickly,
(3) treat you as she would like to be treated,
(4) focus on the solution not problems, and
(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback.
Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you. Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.
Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”
