“Please Don’t Put Me in a Nursing Home…”

How Families Can Help Loved Ones Stay Safely at Home

It’s a plea I’ve heard many times in my work with older adults and their families:
“Please don’t put me in a nursing home.”

For many seniors, the thought of leaving their home and moving into a nursing facility is their biggest fear. In fact, studies show that losing independence and the ability to live at home ranks among the top concerns for aging adults. Even above serious illness.

As a Senior Real Estate Specialist with nearly two decades in real estate and home care, I understand the deep emotional connection people have to their homes. These walls hold memories of family dinners, celebrations, and everyday life. The idea of leaving it behind can feel like losing a part of themselves.

Why Seniors Fear Nursing Homes

The fear isn’t just about location. It’s about lifestyle, dignity, and control. Many older adults worry about:

• Strangers caring for them instead of family.

• Losing the ability to make their own daily decisions.

• Being far from their community and friends.

While nursing homes are necessary for some situations, the good news is that there are many ways to age in place.  Staying in your own home safely for as long as possible.

How to Help a Loved One Stay Home Longer

From my combined experience in senior real estate and home care, I’ve seen first-hand that with the right support and planning, staying at home can be a safe, healthy, and fulfilling option. Here are a few steps families can take:

1. Home Safety Assessments: Identify and address hazards like loose rugs, poor lighting, or steep stairs.

2. Supportive Services: Consider part-time caregivers, meal delivery, or cleaning help.

3. Technology Solutions: Use fall detection devices, medication reminders, and video check-ins.

4. Rightsizing When Necessary: Sometimes, moving to a smaller, more manageable home is the key to staying independent.

5. Family Communication: Have ongoing conversations so no one feels pressured or blindsided when changes are needed.

My Role as a Senior Real Estate Specialist

I don’t just step in when it’s time to sell.  I work with families long before that stage, offering guidance on safe living at home, connecting them with trusted care providers, and helping them explore all their housing options.

When the time is right to move,

I’m here to make the transition as smooth and stress-free as possible. But until then, my focus is on preserving safety, independence, and quality of life at home.

If you or someone you love is starting to think about future living arrangements, whether it’s aging in place, downsizing, or finding a senior community, let’s talk.

I’ll help you explore every option without added pressure.

📞 Call/Text: 914-584-2211
📧 Email: Jennifer.Baukol@CBRealty.com
💻 www.JenniferMBHomes.com

Your home, your life, your choice — I’ll help you protect it. 💙

Navigating the sale of a family home can be complex and emotionally taxing. As a senior real estate specialist, I can help guide you through this process with expertise and compassion. Feel free to reach out to me for personalized assistance.

As your local SRES® (Senior Real Estate Specialist), I’m here to guide you every step of the way.

Whether it’s planning, selling your home, or finding your next perfect space, I’m ready to help.

Let’s simplify your move together!

Jennifer Martire Baukol for all your real estate needs.

“I am committed to providing the most personable, elite and professional customer service. 
My promise to you is to 

(1) put your interests first, 

(2) help you reach your goals quickly, 

(3) treat you as she would like to be treated, 

(4) focus on the solution not problems, and 

(5) provide you with the highest level of attention and feedback. 

Whether you need extra room for a home office or nursery, or a smaller home that requires less upkeep and cost, I’ll bring you to the place that’s tailor-made just for you.

Servicing Westchester County, New York & Fairfield County, Connecticut.

Contact me today to get started. (914) 584-2211.”

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